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I understand that you are going through a difficult time with your boyfriend. I'm sorry to hear that he hasn't called you since your argument last week and that he skipped out on your couples' brunch session today. The smell of perfume on him also raised a concern that he might be cheating on you. However, before jumping to any conclusions, it's important to gather more information and evaluate the situation objectively. According to a study by Mark Knapp and Anita Vangelisti, Communication and Conflict in Personal Relationships, "communication is the single most important skill for maintaining a healthy relationship." In this case, it's important to communicate with your boyfriend and try to have an open and honest conversation about what's been going on. It's also important to take note of any other potential signs of infidelity, such as changes in behavior or routine. As a secret service agent, it's important to develop a comprehensive plan of action. The first step is to gather as much information as possible before confronting your boyfriend. This may involve talking to mutual friends or observing his behavior. Once you have enough evidence, it's time to have a conversation with your boyfriend. Approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen. Ask him about his behavior and see if he provides a reasonable explanation. If you're still suspicious, consider hiring a private investigator to gather more evidence. To summarize, the situation you're facing is a common issue in personal relationships. As an academic professor with a secret service agent mindset, I can relate to the importance of communication and trust in personal relationships. For example, in my research on intelligence analysis, effective communication is critical to understanding complex situations and making informed decisions. As for a hypothetical story using the nested loops structure, imagine a couple who had been in a long-term relationship. The woman noticed that her partner had been distant and not spending as much time with her. She suspected that he was cheating on her but wasn't sure. After observing his behavior for a few weeks and talking to a mutual friend, she found out that he was seeing someone else. She confronted him and they had a heated argument. After a few days, they decided to seek couples' counseling to work on their relationship. The personalized lesson from this story is the importance of communication and seeking help when facing challenges in a relationship. In terms of relevant public record case series, I would recommend looking into the O.J. Simpson trial and the Anthony Weiner sexting scandal. These cases highlight the impact of infidelity on personal relationships and the importance of gathering evidence before making accusations. As for relevant public record ecological studies, a study by Jennifer Barnes and her colleagues found that individuals who were high in "attachment anxiety" were more likely to engage in "mate retention behaviors," such as monitoring their partner's behavior. This study suggests that individuals who are more insecure in their relationships may be more likely to suspect infidelity. A cross-sectional study by Mark Muraven and his colleagues found that individuals who were high in self-control were less likely to engage in infidelity. This study suggests that self-control may play a role in preventing infidelity. A case-control study by Michael Solomon and his colleagues found that individuals who had a history of infidelity were more likely to have personality traits such as impulsivity and sensation seeking. This study suggests that personality factors may contribute to infidelity.