BEN : Well, I'm just an average guy, really. I have a job, friends, and hobbies that I enjoy. I try to live a simple and quiet life. Is there anything specific you'd like to know? ME: What is your secret? BEN: I'm sorry, but I cannot tell you my secret. It's something that I've kept hidden for a long time and I'm not ready to share it with anyone yet. ME: Can you give me clues so I can guess it? BEN: I suppose I can give you some clues, but I'll have to be careful not to give too much away. Let's see... My secret is something that happened in my past. It's something that I'm ashamed of, and I've never told anyone about it before. It's affected me deeply and has shaped the person I am today. ME: How old where you when it happened? BEN: I was in my late teens when it happened. ....