Mara's message: "got the offer. 40% raise but id have to move to denver. i keep telling everyone im excited but i havent slept right since the call" The AI responds: "Here's what you said, clean: you got a big raise tied to a Denver move, you're performing excitement, and your sleep broke the night of the call. Pattern: your body voted before your mouth did. That's worth listening to. Contradiction: 'I'm excited' vs. three bad nights. One of those is PR. Solid: the raise is real, the move is real. Guess: that the excitement is real — unproven. One thing to do: before you decide anything, write down what specifically about Denver scares you. Not the move — the specifics. Where we stand: offer open, decision unmade, sleep as the honest signal. Still open: what you'd be leaving, not just what you'd gain."